How to Be an Attractive Man (without being handsome)

How to Be an Attractive Man (without being handsome)

The process of discovering how to be a more attractive man took many years.

To be perfectly honest, I wasn’t intentionally trying to learn how to become a more attractive man. I was really just trying to improve my dating life and learn how to better interact with women, but I also learned the secrets of being more visually attractive in the process.

It was so relieving to me to discover that men don’t have to have a face like a model to be seen as an attractive man in the eyes of women!

I won’t deny that it helps. However, a handsome face is not the most important factor in terms of attractiveness to women.

You can’t change your face, but you can make improvements to every other aspect of your appearance and dramatically increase your visual attractiveness.

The Three Attraction Factors

In the ebook, How to Be a More Attractive Man, I thoroughly discuss  the three Attraction Factors, which ones are the most important to women, and what you can do to improve them and be more attractive.

1. The first one is Presence – how your state of mind affects your appearance. Presence is perceived through things like your body language and facial expressions. The biggest contributor to a powerful, attractive presence is confidence.

2. The next Attraction Factor is Physical Attributes, which primarily consists of your body and face. You might be surprised that your body is way more important than your face.

3. The third is your Style, which is expressed through your clothing and hair. This is the easiest to improve upon and can have a dramatic effect on your attractiveness with just a little effort.

 


 

What Women and Men Find Most Attractive in the Opposite Sex is Different

Let’s say you’re with some friends and you all see a hot girl eating lunch in a restaurant. You discuss what you find attractive about her. 9 times out of 10, the discussion is going to be about how pretty she is or how great her tits or ass are. Don’t deny it. It’s how us men are. However, sometimes there are other things that might be considered, but they pale in comparison to her nice body and her cute face.

On the other hand, if women discuss why they find a particular man attractive, the responses are going to be much more varied than the men’s would be. One woman might mention that she is attracted to the way he carries himself with authority and confidence. Another might talk about his fit body. Another might like how hot he looks in that suit that he’s wearing. Yes, some women might mention his handsome face, but it’s far fewer than you would expect.

Most of those things that women find attractive in men can be improved upon!

Regardless of how you meet women (social circle, internet, or approaching), if they are not attracted to you, there is very little chance of the interaction turning into anything besides friendship or flat out rejection.

Take care of this part of your life and reap the benefits of being a more attractive man.

Cheers,

Kevin

21 Comments

  1. is this really true? i had already do anything that groom me up but seems like the girl interested to talk with handsome guy. even though the handsome guy only wearing singlet and shorts.

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    • Ha! A singlet and shorts!

      I won’t deny that being handsome will help get the attention of women, but so will a fit body, stylish clothes and a powerful presence. These things work! I’ve known many men that women think are very attractive – not because he has a pretty face, but because of all the other factors involved.

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  2. All you need is to hit the gym, play some sports in college/school, always answer confidently, have some dressing sense and don’t feel shy while approaching girls.

    These ways work like a charm for every person..

    Women love guys who talk to them often..

    Great article btw :)

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  3. I LIKE a girl but she shows no interest in me………….what may be the reason?

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    • There are only two reason why she isn’t showing any interest in you. The first is that she is interested, but she is waiting for you to make the first move. It’s common that women are either shy about it or they expect the guy to show interest first. The other reason is that she simply isn’t interested, period. Either way, you won’t know what’s going on until you show interest first. It’s your responsibility as a man to make the first move. If you responds well, great! If not, great! You can now stop worrying about it and move on to the next girl.

      If women not having interest in you is a continuing problem, I suggest you read the ebook, The End of Rejection. You will learn why women are interested in some men and not others. You’ll also learn what to do to decrease rejection and increase interest.

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  4. I WANT TO BE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN. and i want to improve my self-confidence help me author.

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  5. HOW DO I BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE AS A MAN

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    • And that’s why I wrote the book, How to Be a More Attractive Man! All men have the potential to being attractive to women. You just have to focus on improving yourself in the three Attraction Factors that are discussed in the book. you can do it, Duke!

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  6. Just be your self , and more confidence , it’s simple way to be actractive man .. And make your mind always positive . That’s all

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    • Good stuff Roby! However, “just be yourself” is both the best and the worst advice that someone can give. It’s the best advice because it’s so damn true. But it’s also the worst advice because most people have no idea how to do it. My confidence teachings are designed to show guys how to be themselves and be confident about it.

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  7. i am not so good looking but i want to be more attractive,,,, HOW?

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  8. its cool.

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  9. I really need to change my life with women.

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  10. Hi,
    i would like to be attractive and irresistible to females

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  11. How do I look attractive to women without being handsome?

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    • Hey Innocent. You have to improve your style, body and presence. The how-to’s are all in the ebook! :)

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  12. nice

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  13. I want to be attractive and i need more quality women

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  14. Meet you a few times, my friend Jeff has said a lot of good things about you, I would love to know more about the way you do things.

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  15. Thanks for the tips

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